Tuesday, February 06, 2007
Symbiosis
Dear Pud,
I've been single for about two years now. I grew up around women, so I generally know what they want and need.
So why do I get rejected so often? Every girl I talk to is either taken, not interested, or doesn't see me as a "boyfriend" -- just as a friend.
Help!
Thanks,
Kenny
23 years old
Clinton Township, Michigan
Kenny,
The fact that you grew up around women -- that's what's holding you back. You act too much like "one of the girls." They see you as just a friend. Or worse, as a sister.
I know it sounds 1950's, but women want manly men. They want a man who's simple; who subsists solely on food, sex and sleep. Women THRIVE on telling men that we don't "understand" them, even if we do. Which, incidentally, gives us the perfect excuse for when we fuck up.
You see? It's the perfect ecosystem. And you're poisoning it for yourself.
Forget everything you know about women. Be confident, and you'll do great.
Pud
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