Saturday, November 11, 2006
Truth or dare
Pud,
This saturday night my boyfriend was out clubbing with his cousins. When I called him that night, he tells me all excitedly that some random girl came up and kissed him as part of a "truth or dare" game.
I'm pissed.
Do you think I'm overreacting?
Please advise, Ruma
Ruma,
You should be pissed, but flattered. After all, of all the guys in the club, they picked yours.
And you really shouldn't be that pissed.
Unlike women, men separate the physical and mental aspects of sex. On one side of the spectrum would be, say, your boyfriend keeping a mistress. In that case, you'd be justified in feeling pissed.
But on the other side of the spectrum is...well, some random girl running up to him at a bar playing truth or dare.
Rock on, Pud
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