Wednesday, November 15, 2006
Which one are you?
Pud,
I've just started dating this guy. Somehow I ended up with the "power" and control in this relationship.
How do I give control back to him?
Kristin
Dear Kristin,
Some people reading this question will think "why would you want to give up control?," while others completely understand.
Let's talk about "dominant" and "submissive." When I say those words, most people think shiny black boots and leather whips. They say "I'm not into that stuff."
They're wrong and they don't even know it. EVERYONE is either dom or sub, even if it's not sexual (though it almost always correlates to what you like in bed, too...).
Anyway, you happen to be a sub. Unfortunately, your boyfriend is also a sub. When he's not out with you, he dreams of a 6' dominatrix named Mistress Helena fucking him in the ass with a strap-on.
And there's nothing wrong with that. Plenty of women are dom. But not you.
Find yourself a dominant guy and you'll be happy.
Pud
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