Monday, November 13, 2006
Swinging
Pud,
Open marriages where each partner consents to sex outside of marriage -- is this a good idea? What about swinging with other couples?
Jax
Jax,
Be honest, do you really feel comfortable committing to sex with one person, and only one person, for the next 50 years?
Of course not. Nobody does. Sexual monogamy is dead.
However, individual sex outside of marriage is a bad idea. There's too much potential for "special, alone time" with the third-party, which could lead to an emotional relationship, more than a sexual relationship. This is especially true for the female half of the couple -- women are more emotionally attached to sex than men.
"Swinging" is entirely different though. It's pure sex without the emotional aftertaste. A great way to "cheat" without cheating. 2 couples, 1 bed, nothing's off-limits (except gay stuff, assuming the guys aren't bi).
Most men think they'll be jealous in this situation, watching another dude with his wife. But remember, you're with the other dude's wife, so it's all good.
Men also think it's kind of gay being that close to another naked man. Come on, you've seen plenty of naked men in porn.
Just don't make eye contact with the other guy. Because that would be totally gay.
Pud
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