Thursday, November 23, 2006
Meet the parents
Dear Pud,
I've been dating this guy for about 3 months. About a month and a half ago I went bat shit crazy over him, but he told me he didn't want to be my boyfriend.
I apologized, and we continued to see each other.
Last weekend he took me to meet his parents. I didn't ask, either -- out of nowhere, he told me he wanted me to meet them.
What's going through his head? I'm so confused.
Thanks a bunch,
Face
Female, 25
Nashville, Tennessee
Face,
His parents called him last weekend to invite him out to dinner. They asked if he wanted to bring a guest. He took you along because he enjoys your company.
He also thinks you're kind of cute.
But he's not interested in dating you exclusively. At least, not in your current form. You're almost there, but not quite ______ enough (fill in the blank with cute, funny, similar, smart, sane, perverted, or something else. you know what it is.).
But there's good news. You're in the position to have an even more interesting and fulfilling relationship. Tell him you're cool with dating other people. Tell him you want to be his "friend with benefits." Tell him you want him to be with other girls, and that it turns you on to hear about it (get the dirty details... they will turn you on, promise.).
This isn't about sex. This is about getting him to let you in. He likes you just enough that he'll open up if you want him to.
You'll develop a uniquely intense and passionate relationship that's new to both of you. You'll learn more about him that you ever thought you would. And... you'll probably learn what makes him fall in love.
Pud
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