Tuesday, December 05, 2006
Needs
Dear Pud,
Whenever my girlfriend and I have a problem, I always end up adjusting to her needs -- rather than her adjusting to mine.
Why is that?
Thanks,
Ivan
18 years old
Fullerton, CA Ivan,
As a male, you have no needs. More specifically, you have one single innate need: to provide for her, thus making her less needy.
2,000 years ago you could kill a giant buffalo and feed her for months. This would fulfill her needs (stuff) and yours (providing her stuff). Unfortunately, since the advent of the supermarket, the best you can do is provide for her emotionally -- something men aren't natually equipped to do.
Ergo, she will never be fulfilled.
Pud
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