Monday, November 27, 2006
Already has a boyfriend?
Hey Pud,
I've been reading your blog for a while, and let me say you're doing a great job helping people.
There's this girl I've been wanting to ask out for a while. But I'm not sure if she has a boyfriend. What should I do?
Thanks,
Ravi G.
16 years old
Miami, Florida
Ravi,
At no point should you concern yourself with the existence or non-existence of a boyfriend.
Repeat after me: "If she has a boyfriend, that's HER problem, not mine."
Assuming she has a boyfriend, she has to make a decision -- not you, not the other guy. And if she chooses you, it then becomes HIS problem, which is ultimately what you want.
(now whether you should hit on a woman with a husband is another question, but a 16 year old boyfriend? game on.)
Pud
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